...Oh yes and I am single!!!
Thats the problem. I am not. On the other hand, If I buy it and as a result end up single...Decisions, decisions!
Be ironic if she got it in the divorce.
Teach your wife to ride on the America. Then when she is settled in to the idea, get her to suggest that you need two bikes. Then you have an open door to get the Rocket and keep the America. You may miss this deal, but I'm confident that there will be others, after she is onboard with the idea. Also, given some more time you will be better prepared to make the purchase. How long have you been married?