(Loquacious)

06/06/12 09:48 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

So hard to accept!
RIP Friend

(Bearing Changer)

06/06/12 09:54 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Shaun the details are vague, but here is a posting from the El Dabe Law Firm Blog

Quote:

June 6, 2012

Anaheim – Motorcyclist John Bedard was involved in a crash that took his life on Tuesday.

The accident happened on the eastbound 91 freeway (Riverside freeway), west of Interstate 5 in Anaheim. The time of the collision was around 3:15 p.m. in the afternoon. According to California Highway Patrol he was involved in a traffic collision while driving his motorcycle however details of the accident are scarce as of yet. Bedard was rushed to UCI Medical Center in the city of Orange where he succumbed to his injuries later in the evening.

Bedard was only 45 years old, a resident of East Helena, Montana.

brindle

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 10:00 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Oh crap, I don't know what to say.

Please pass on my condolences to his family and friends.

The_Insane_Viking

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 10:06 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

A huge loss. I am speechless. Jim, if you know of any way to pass on condolances to John's family please let us know.

We will miss you Friar...

Carl

(Saddle Sore)

06/06/12 10:08 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Ive been sitting here for over an hour in a state of shock.
One of Johns friends in Montana contacted me via FB about the time Jim PMd me.

If it were not for John I would not have known of BA.com.
I feel a lot of things right now but the loss of a friend is cutting deep.

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 10:14 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Shocked....
tear eyed...

This is an immense loss.
I'm at a loss for words...

John, I will miss forever your reparte and your involvement with us.
You will always have a part of your soul living here, and you will be remembered.

RIP and farewell.

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 10:18 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I don't believe this. I had lunch with him 2 hours before. I am shocked and mortified. This better not be a joke. He was on his way to stay with his dad for a few days. I'm so bummed.

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 10:27 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Damn. Its true. I'm speachless. I was the last person to talk to him

http://www.accidentin.com/article_read.php?idLink=43007162

(Stickman Yogi)

06/06/12 10:28 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Through the tears I can't express my sadness. Love you John and will miss you immensely.

lynchphoto

(3/4 Throttle)

06/06/12 10:29 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Damn!!!! I just finally got to meet him at the Georgia rally... My condolences to his family and girlfriend.... RIP good friar...

Hedgehog

(3/4 Throttle)

06/06/12 10:31 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

RIP john. My thoughts are with your family at this sad time.

oldroadie

(Check Pants)

06/06/12 10:33 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Ouch, a good guy gone too soon. RIP Friar, your family of riders mourns you.

Ryan7771

(Oil Expert)

06/06/12 10:50 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I don't know what else to do other than continue working. Need to stay preoccupied while trying not to vomit. I am thankful for our short time together in Georgia Brother John. Godspeed.

I found a smile thinking of Friar's first encounter with LarryShep. That sure is a mighty pretty Rocket you got there Friar. Most comfortable bike they make too.

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 10:54 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

I don't know what else to do other than continue working. Need to stay preoccupied while trying not to vomit. I am thankful for our short time together in Georgia Brother John. Godspeed.

I feel the same way brother. Its hard to concentrate on work though.

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 11:03 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

WTF! unbelievable! The Hammer of smiting will never swing again R.I.P. John you will be missed!

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 11:04 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Same here

It's 2am over here, and I can't go to sleep...

I'm opening beers, one is left outside on the table for him...
The skies opened up for the first time in 3 weeks, I can see stars...

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 11:04 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

My first thought is which bike was he on? We'll know these things later on.Right now all thier is grief for a fellow biker who died doing what he loved.

cmiman

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 11:06 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I don't know what to say. Although I never actually met him, I feel like he was a distant relative. I have read his words almost everyday for the past 4 years. I am in shock right now. I will miss his post's here. My deepest and sincere condolences to all who knew and loved him. This is a most difficult time for our BA.com family.

PES

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 11:06 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

When I first saw the subject line I thought it was a joke also. I am shocked and saddened by this. I met John last year at the SWTF in Prescott. I will miss his wit, no nonsense attitude on this site and his love of life and riding. RIP FriarJohn

MACMC

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 11:10 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Shocked

PaulLoader1

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 11:13 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

R.I.P John

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 11:14 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

My first thought is which bike was he on? We'll know these things later on.Right now all thier is grief for a fellow biker who died doing what he loved.

He was on his RocketIII. And your right it doesn't make a difference except he was all our friend. I will say..he was complaining of leg stiffness due to an allegic reaction to two antibiitics he was taking since leaving Florida. He had his right leg lifted up on a chair at lunch. We sat for hours talking about all you guys and laughing. He told me about the all the BA.com members he had met up to that point. And I can tell you alchohol was NOT a factor. We had iced tea. I throw this out there so there will be no doubts about our friend. I wish I could have seen 1-1/2 hour ahead in time. I would have him just come back to my house. But he felt that rush hour on the 91 wouldn't be a factor at 2:30 when he left. I feel so bad. So deflated that I might have been able to prevent this. If I had only known. He didn't look tired but was looking forward for a couple days of down time at his fathers house. And checking in with all of us to say hi.

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 11:17 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Wow, I am in shock and tears. His accident happened near where my brother lives. It is just so hard to accept. I wish Bob and I went to Sedona this year. He is missed already. Bless you John, your family is in my prayers.

P.S. That area of the 91, has the 55 and 57 freeways dumping into it. It is congested all day long, everyday. That stretch of freeway even scares me when we are in the car.

piper

(Oil Expert)

06/06/12 11:17 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Rest In Peace John. An ocean between here and there, and a microscopic chance to meet IRL, but I've felt that I knew this man as a good friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends together with my deepest condolences...

locopony

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 11:19 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I aint any good at this. I never met him in person but felt like I knew him. Good bye Bro. we shall all see you by and by.

Nutpot

(Member)

06/06/12 11:25 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Deepest sympathies to his family and friends.

(Saddle Sore)

06/06/12 11:26 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

I wish I could have seen 1-1/2 hour ahead in time. I would have him just come back to my house. But he felt that rush hour on the 91 wouldn't be a factor at 2:30 when he left. I feel so bad. So deflated that I might have been able to prevent this. If I had only known. He didn't look tired but was looking forward for a couple days of down time at his fathers house. And checking in with all of us to say hi.

It would not have mattered. If it was his time it was his time. Don't do this to yourself. His friend Gene was saying the same sort of things about letting him go on the trip while on the meds. We all know that when its time to ride, we ride.

For those that had ever met Friar ... you know what he'd saying right now. He'd be telling us to stop being pansies (he would have used different worlds of course) and get out and ride. Heck, he'd be geared, saddled, the bike would be started and heading out while we were left talking.

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 11:31 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

-So True!!! Zmillin.

becky

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 11:37 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I am in shock! I just saw him in Sedona on Friday night and got to see his Rocket III. It was clear he loved riding the big bike.

Will miss his wit and reparte both here and on FB. Prayers to his family and friends.

Ride that bike like you stole it John!!! And ride in peace now!
Becky

(Fe Butt)

06/06/12 11:44 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

This is terrible news indeed! I will miss ribbing back and forth with him. This not only a great loss for his friends but a great loss for the whole BA.com community as well.I was just PMing back and forth with him not long ago, I am in total shock and almost disbelief.I didn't always see eye to eye with John but that is why I liked him. He kept this place going with fairness and just enough restraint to make this a great place to hang out. John put his time, knowlege and effort into this site for us all and I am sure we all appreciate that. He will be missed by those who knew him weather it be just on here like me or in person like many others.

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 11:46 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Wendy and I spent a few days with John in 2008 and rode from Vegas to Dwight's shindig (and back) with him.
Many of us have known him for most of the ten years this site has existed - whether they were lucky enough to meet him or not.
Miss you mate.
Love and best wishes to your family and friends

becky

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 11:46 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Quote:

I wish I could have seen 1-1/2 hour ahead in time. I would have him just come back to my house. But he felt that rush hour on the 91 wouldn't be a factor at 2:30 when he left. I feel so bad. So deflated that I might have been able to prevent this. If I had only known. He didn't look tired but was looking forward for a couple days of down time at his fathers house. And checking in with all of us to say hi.

It would not have mattered. If it was his time it was his time. Don't do this to yourself. His friend Gene was saying the same sort of things about letting him go on the trip while on the meds. We all know that when its time to ride, we ride.

For those that had ever met Friar ... you know what he'd saying right now. He'd be telling us to stop being pansies (he would have used different worlds of course) and get out and ride. Heck, he'd be geared, saddled, the bike would be started and heading out while we were left talking.

You are very right Z! And Doug - there was nothing you could have done, it was apparently waiting to happen regardless of what any of us wished, wanted or did.
John can now ride that Rocket III year round and not be bothered with the snow or his health issues!!!

Becky

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 11:47 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Sometimes ya just know when shooting the breeze with someone either in person, phone or e-mail that the person you are speaking with on the other end is a good ******! And then when that person offers you up advice or some kind words (even as direct as john could be) the picture becomes clearer. I never met John, was looking forward to it, i will just have to wait a little longer now, but eventually.

RIP John you were liked and appreciated...... thats heaven to me.

Mike

Nick

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 11:50 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Im so sorry to hear this, RIP John

Nick.

(Fe Butt)

06/06/12 11:51 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I don't know who is going to take over for John but there should be a special place on the home page for him with all the time and effort he put in here.

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 11:53 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

I don't know who is going to take over for John but there should be a special place on the home page for him with all the time and effort he put in here.

absofriginlutley!!!!

locopony

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 11:54 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Quote:

My first thought is which bike was he on? We'll know these things later on.Right now all thier is grief for a fellow biker who died doing what he loved.

He was on his RocketIII. And your right it doesn't make a difference except he was all our friend. I will say..he was complaining of leg stiffness due to an allegic reaction to two antibiitics he was taking since leaving Florida. He had his right leg lifted up on a chair at lunch. We sat for hours talking about all you guys and laughing. He told me about the all the BA.com members he had met up to that point. And I can tell you alchohol was NOT a factor. We had iced tea. I throw this out there so there will be no doubts about our friend. I wish I could have seen 1-1/2 hour ahead in time. I would have him just come back to my house. But he felt that rush hour on the 91 wouldn't be a factor at 2:30 when he left. I feel so bad. So deflated that I might have been able to prevent this. If I had only known. He didn't look tired but was looking forward for a couple days of down time at his fathers house. And checking in with all of us to say hi.

If we could tell the future many things would be different. Do not bear this as a burden. Its impossible for you to have foreseen this. You were a good friend, and remember the good time you had.

Celt

(Oil Expert)

06/06/12 11:58 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

R.I.P John ,you will be greatly missed mate. im absolutely stunned to hear this news, i was so looking forward to meeting up with John and the rest of the BA.com crew in Nelson, . ride safe brothers and sisters ride safe.

Leithal

(3/4 Throttle)

06/06/12 12:06 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

As many other have said, I'm in shock. Can't even think of what to say, R.I.P Good Friar.

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 12:06 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

I don't know who is going to take over for John but there should be a special place on the home page for him with all the time and effort he put in here.

I'm sure that the ones already involved would know what to do....

In any case, pm me if the site needs support, I could never fill in John's shoes, but if I can help, it would be my humbled privilege to do so in any way I can.

birchr

(Monkey Butt)

06/06/12 12:09 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Really sad to hear this news and would like to pass my deepest sympathy to Johns family and partner, we have lost a very good friend...

roadie

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 12:18 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Janet's in tears, I'm not far behind, just heard the sad news from Freedom a few minutes ago. We loved the good friar; God bless and God's peace be with you old friend and brother.....

roadie

kford

(Member)

06/06/12 12:18 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Z called me at work. I'm shocked and sad. I'm lucky to say he was my friend. I'm reading everyone's post and my eyes are flooded with tears knowing that I will never see or talk to John again. That's a hard reality to accept.

What I told Z - John left us doing what he loved! Riding his Triumph! We can all smile about that.

When we find out about memorial - someone should coordinate a rally to the memorial. If we can - we should all go on our Triumphs to honor John.

eddieb

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 12:21 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Wow! This caught me of guard. Recently, I had asked him how he had time for three bikes, a career, a girlfriend and a moderators job. His response was that he was able to do anything he wants because of no spouse, kids etc. Never met John, but his ever presence on the forum will be missed.

Someone please post the details of the accident as they emerge. It's helpful to know what happened- a reaction to his meds, an inattentive driver on a cell phone, riders error etc.

Prayers going out to his family...

Bodger

(Bodger the Old Codger)

06/06/12 12:21 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

My deepest and most sincere condolences to all who knew and loved him.

This place will not be the same without his wit and sarcasm.

(Stickman Yogi)

06/06/12 12:24 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I think of John as the father of the ba.com family. No one can fill his shoes but Jeff, your kindness in offering to help here is truly great.

I'm drawing on the good memories of John during his times here at my home and at the Nelson RAT Raid. It helps a little to do that. Dang this is tough!! Meanwhile I just what to thank John wherever he is, for all he did to make this world a better place. He was a big man in more ways than one!

Grzegorz

(Freelance Jedi Knight)

06/06/12 12:27 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Wow! This caught me of guard. Recently, I had asked him how he had time for three bikes, a career, a girlfriend and a moderators job. His response was that he was able to do anything he wants because of no spouse, kids etc. Never met John, but his ever presence on the forum will be missed.

Someone please post the details of the accident as they emerge. It's helpful to know what happened- a reaction to his meds, an inattentive driver on a cell phone, riders error etc.

Prayers going out to his family...

Quote:

The crash occurred at about 3:15 p.m. west of the I-5 when Bedard, who was traveling at about 65 mph in the carpool lane, locked up his brakes and skid forward as traffic began to slow, the California Highway Patrol said.
Bedard wound up losing control and was ejected off his motorcycle into the roadway, the CHP said.
No other vehicles were involved, the CHP said

this is The End of an era ...he will be missed .......

freedom

(Saddle Sore)

06/06/12 12:42 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

John's Seagrams he left with me just 16 short days ago. FRIAR!

I have a partial bottle of Crown in the kitchen cubboard, and I don't even drink the damn stuff. But either way, thank you for letting us know Jim.

jh

churchkey

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 12:48 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I'm truly shocked. Never met John, but felt like i did by reading his posts and doing some trading with him thru the classifieds. He will be greatly missed here at BA.com and of course, my condolences to his family and friends.

(Bearing Changer)

06/06/12 12:49 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

In my haze I stand corrected, as a purple bag denotes Crown Royal. THAT is what the good Friar left with me. And that is what I will hoist to his memory tonight. John, you and John were good friends. Please take it easy tonight. I intend to attend John's wake.

eighteen98

(Member)

06/06/12 12:49 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Barely knew him only from here and one email exchange but I'm devastated at this news. My heart goes out to all of you that knew him best.

If there's something we can come together and do for his family I'm open to it.

drgnslyr

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 12:52 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I too am saddened by this news.I never met him but felt like I knew through this site. RIP John.

bigtexas

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 12:57 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Shocked as well... my heartfelt condolences to John's family and friends.

amglo

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 12:59 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I never had the pleasure of meeting John in person, We chatted often via PM's on facebook. This is a huge loss, my heart goes out to his girlfriend, family and his brothers on this forum.

LKR

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 01:00 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Z (He's gone?)

Fasteddy

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 01:01 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Crushed, John like a good many of you folks here was more than just a friend on the forum to banter with. We spoke often and this just blows me away.

I was looking forward to seeing him in as well as others in Georgia and I was robbed of the opportunity.

Crushed.
eddy

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 01:04 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Went outside to the yard next to the beer I left him, 'cos it's 4 am here and even though I don't feel like it, I'm trying to go to bed...

Saying goodbye, looking up at the clear sky... I kid you not, a shooting star just flew right by smack down the middle.... and all I could think was.... thank you, John.

(Saddle Sore)

06/06/12 01:16 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Z (He's gone?)

Im still having a hard time getting my brain to accept this but yes, he's gone Kit.

RKTBOB

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 01:18 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Sad news for sure..Sometimes wondering why? always leaves me with a void..RIP Friar.."Rideing the Rocket"n'fullfilling your dream!!God Bless!!

JasonSonOfEd

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 01:32 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Deepest sympathies to his family and friends.

R.I.P John

(Saddle Sore)

06/06/12 01:42 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

First time I met John (Friar) and John (Freedom). This was a day before we departed Seattle and headed for Surrey then on to Nelson (also my first trip to Nelson). This was in 2008.

His battery quit at the boarder crossing that year. I laughed my arse off as he pushed it across the boarder. This was later that eve at Gordie's (Celt) house. John showing off his gams as he replaced his battery.

Nelson 2011 - John and Karen having a good ole time.

John and Eddy sitting on a bench in Jerome Az. 2011.

(Fe Butt)

06/06/12 01:47 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Looks more like he is flipping off the camera than showing his gams in that one shot

(Bearing Changer)

06/06/12 01:50 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Good times 2010

(Saddle Sore)

06/06/12 01:51 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Looks more like he is flipping off the camera than showing his gams in that one shot

Dang it. I never saw that. He's laughing at this right now, I can feel it.

TomSpdMstr

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 01:56 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

A dam dam shame,

Tailwinds to him.

wrwallpi

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 01:57 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

To Heaven's FNG - (And that would be "Finest" New Guy up there, though he told me I rode like the other kind of "FNG" down here.) Not too many people have I allowed to stay in the personal space I call my home, but John was the type of guy you would want to be there, regardless of how you met him. I'm glad Nancy and Lucy the Wonder Schnauzer got to meet him, as he was what exemplified the vast majority of people on this site. As a matter of fact, I think Lucy had a crush on the good Friar, and she's an excellent judge of character.

Work calls me away, but allow me to close by saying this:

1. I'll never walk away from my bike without thinking I've left the lights on;

2. I'll never make a turn without thinking I've forgotten to turn off the signal; and

3. When I forget to do these things, and I probably always will, I'll hear that Friar's voice muttering "Ef-en-gee"

behind my back.

PS - But John, I like cable...

(Complete Newb)

06/06/12 02:08 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Hello Everyone My Name is Gene Fenske I have been friends with John for 27 years and he was like a brother to me. I am so touched by what all of you have said here. I am sorry for the loss that I know we all feel at this time and I know that his family, girlfriend and non BA.com friends would and will appreciate what you have said on these pages. I will make sure they know of this thread. We will all miss him very, very much. I have spoken with his mother and father and they are in the process of finding out what they can about what happened and making final arangemnets. As I know more I will do my best to pass the information along.

I am the one that introduced him to riding motorcycles and can still remember the day we picked up his first America and our first short ride from East Helena to Toston and back. Little did I know then the passion it would ignite in him for motorcycling and particularly his Triumphs. He loved this site . . . it was one of his pride and joys. I do not know what else I can say.

John was doing one of the things he loved at the time he left this world. . . Should we all be so lucky.

If you need to contact me my wife and I share genoandnancy@msn.com for email and we will check it as often as we can. I can also be found on facebook (Gene Fenske - Helena, MT.)

Sincerly,
Geno

NIbiker

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 02:16 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Very sad, I never met John, but it's easy to tell he was a good guy. RIP.

GJS

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 02:23 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Big Big Loss to so many.

JCBullen

(Oil Expert)

06/06/12 02:27 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I never had the privilege of meeting Friar John except on this board. I feel poorer for never meeting him in person, but fortunate in the contact that I did have with him on this site and in this community of those who enjoy the wind in their faces and the feeling of freedom that comes with riding.

Every day may be the last for any of us. Don't spend a minute of it being miserable. There just ain't enough time no matter how much time you think you may have.

Rest in peace, John. Hope to meet you on the other side, so warm the damn bike up.

DollarBill

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 02:27 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Like many on this site, I sit here totally abject to this horrible news. I only knew and admired him and his efforts through the ethernet.

He was always there for us, solving our problems, offering sound advice and being supportive in so many ways.

His devotion to riding and this site will sadly be missed.

If I was ever going to USA, he was on top of my "to meet" list, sadly this will not happen.

To his family and friends I sincerely offer the deepest condolences from down under.

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 02:28 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Thanks Gene.
Please pass on the best wishes from several thousand bonnevilleamerica.com members

pete57

(Member)

06/06/12 02:35 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Very sad news,My condolences to his family and friends

maxwellpgh

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 02:40 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Its a very sad day indeed

Fasteddy

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 02:41 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Z,

Thanks for posting that picture. I was thinking I didn't have any picture of John. This one means a lot to me because that day in AZ I decided to hang out with John, it was freaking hot and we were both thirsty and thought we would just sit and have some water and talk. Picture like this, sitting and taking the time to talk at these rallies and get to know people is what I look forward to more than the rides too and from and during events.

Johns friends and family we share your grief and loss.

(Fe Butt)

06/06/12 02:47 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

NO! This can't be happening!!! My computer access was down for most on this morning, and now I've just got it back and the first thing I discover is THIS!!!!

I'm in shock! There's no other way to put it.

John was THE life's breath of this website. BUT, even more importantly, over the many years of our mutual association and participation at this website, John became a very valued friend.

I'm sorry, but at this time that is all I can say. I'll have other things to say about John after I get over the initial shock of this sad sad news.

Gregger

(Oil Expert)

06/06/12 02:49 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Gene,

So sad to have to welcome you to the forum under such a dark cloud of despair.... But thanks for the picture of John's life.

I still can't believe this.... When I saw the post I was sure someone was pulling an April fools joke but it's June and with fear and trepidation, opened the post only to be blown away with the reality of it all. It's like I lost one of my best friends, even though I never met him.

We'll miss the Good Friar.

I hope all of you that have pictures of John can post them as a tribute to a good friend.

Yota

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 02:51 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

this sucks

Knoxville

(Member)

06/06/12 02:52 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I only knew John through his efforts, wit and humor here on BA.com; I'm deeply sorry for the lost to his friends and family and all members here..

Blue Sky Black Death; Rest in Peace, John.

pipedr

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 03:00 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I'm truely saddened to hear this news.My thoughts and prayers go out to all who knew this fine man. It says a lot about a person who can become a friend without ever having met face to face, and who's loss can bring a man to tears. There so much more that runs through my mind right now, but no words seem to fit. God's Speed my friend and may His peace be with you.

(Fe Butt)

06/06/12 03:04 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

John was THE life's breath of this website.

I agree and he made it what it is today, I hope it survives his loss as a place I want to hang out and unwind. Ya know John made this place what it is for me all the times I butted heads with him or shared a laugh or discussed some peace of tech with him. I have a hard time thinking of this site without him. It brings a tear to my eye.

(Should be Riding)

06/06/12 03:05 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

R.I.P. John. You were a great friend.

brindle

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 03:06 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Quote:

John was THE life's breath of this website.

I agree and he made it what it is today, I hope it survives his loss as a place I want to hang out and unwind.

+1

I'm still struggling to come to terms with the news

(Should be Riding)

06/06/12 03:08 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

I hope all of you that have pictures of John can post them as a tribute to a good friend.

Cambridge, Idaho July 2006

chy

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 03:22 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Ga Rally...

Two_Wheel_n

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 03:23 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Gene,

So sad to have to welcome you to the forum under such a dark cloud of despair.... But thanks for the picture of John's life.

I still can't believe this.... When I saw the post I was sure someone was pulling an April fools joke but it's June and with fear and trepidation, opened the post only to be blown away with the reality of it all. It's like I lost one of my best friends, even though I never met him.

We'll miss the Good Friar.

I hope all of you that have pictures of John can post them as a tribute to a good friend.

+1
I'm at a lost for words... I think I'll get some Crown and have a drink for John...
RIP good Frier, and thoughts and prayers to his friends and family

BrianT

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 03:31 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

My Soul aches. I've known John for six years here on BA.com,
he was a wise & funny guy; he guarded this little community
like a Papa Bear. When I saw this I wanted to think it was a
joke. Goodbye John, my friend. Say hello to Gary Nixon & Steve McQueen from all of us.
I'm wearing a Black Armband on my Riding Jacket.

Warlock

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 03:32 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I saw a couple of RIP facebook posts in the early hours (uk) and thought it was some sort of wind up...
Can't believe the irony after going through so much effort sorting the bike to get his trip underway...
Still stunned from the news.. His wit and humour will be missed.
My thoughts are with his family at this sad time..
RIP Friar.

Willthethrill

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 03:43 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Thanks Gene.
Please pass on the best wishes from several thousand bonnevilleamerica.com members

+1 Please send condolences to his family and close friends. I'm just stunned right now; this is terrible news.

Will

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 03:44 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Sometimes It's the small things you remember.
I was sitting with Chy at his place @ this years Ga Rally.
I had no idea John was coming, in pulls Moe and behind him pulls FJ on Moe's other bike. My brain was just not computing how the heck FJ from Montana was riding Moe's bike from Florida, Cinnamon Girl in Georgia. John gets off the bike and I walked up to greet him and he says " you had the dumbest look on your face" It was the worst kept secret, you must be the only one who did not know.
haha,That was John, always said what was on his mind.

Miss you big man and I'm glad I got to ride with you in Arizona last year, godspeed !

Celt

(Oil Expert)

06/06/12 03:46 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Drinking my good Scotch and all the time wishing it was Crown Royal'the look on his face says it all .

getting ready to leave for Nelson

leaving for Nelson.
these are the only pics ive got of John from 08 . the last time we met was in Bellingham ,when he rode up to meet me and ride down to the Oyster Run(in the pissin rain i might add). it didnt happen Bollox packed it in and we had to get him a tow to a local HD shop. thats where we left him after about an hour , he didnt want to spoil our ride to the rally .i will lift a glass of that Crown Royal stuff(have a miniture somewhere) to ya John , but it 'll be washed down after with something special.

wrwallpi

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 03:49 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Just a note - John was accompanied on this trip by another friend, Devon Woods, who also lived near John - 90 miles away, but that's Montana for you.

John and Devon split up to see others, John in Riverside and San Diego; Devon in LA. They were to link up for the trip back home.

Anyway, Devon will be making a solo trip back to MT (he and John were to travel the East side of the Sierras to return home). Please keep Devon in your thoughts and prayers.

tcv

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 03:54 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Still trying to wrap my head around this. I remember John talking about the trip out to CA when he was at the Georgia Rally. I know the Riverside 91, because I use to commute between Riverside and Anaheim on my 1980 Goldwing (Splitting the lanes whenever possible).

So, I guess I can say I knew John more than some, but much less than most. He left an impression on all that he meet, and will be truly missed by all that have known him.

Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It's the transition that's troublesome.
Isaac Asimov
US science fiction novelist & scholar (1920 - 1992)

GinaS

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 04:03 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

It's drawn me out the woodwork.

John is one of the guys over the pond I would have loved to have met. We shared a natter about Thunderbird Sport wheels and twin disk-ing the front wheel on our Americas ages ago... Probably got to be looking 5 or 6 years ago. Unlike some places I inhabit as a biker, he accepted that although a girl, I kinda knew what I was talking about. Or at least was learning...

Can't help but wondering who's gonna wield the Hammer of Smiting now...

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 04:04 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

We've never had a flower fund here but this would be a good time to starte one. Flowers from the BA.com family would be nice.

67GTONUT

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 04:04 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I saw Fast Eddy's post on FB, and had to come here...... I havent been here in awhile, but I am also shocked......

He will be missed...... loved by many, never to be forgotten.

RIP

oilleak

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 04:11 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Sad to here this, he was a big part of this site.

Larry

Bill

(Oil Expert)

06/06/12 04:14 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

boy, I'm at a loss. It's trite but at least he died with his boots on. I honestly think that's what I'd want - but not just yet.

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 04:15 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

AZ, 2008

John running out of gas
Lucky for us we were in the arse end of Nowheresville (1.5hrs from Dwight's).
Note the pleasant surroundings with shade and cool drinks. NOT!!

With Wendy

With your's truely
Apologies for the poor editing on the shirt. NOT appropraite at this time but John liked it so much I sent him his own

erle

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 04:38 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I'm glad I got to meet him & shake his hand @ the '12 GA. Rally. We didn't get to talk much, as I'm NOT much of a conversationalist, the number of NEW faces was a little overwhelming to me, most were conversing with old friends, and I needed to get back to the motel to check up on my sick son.

I was in the process of making him one of my fuel filters. He had a few ideas, and after batting around about a dozen ideas on that thread, THIS is what he came up with.

He sent me this little Bull Dog pin and I was to try & bend it to fit a fuel filter for him a couple weeks before the rally. I didn't get it till last week, and told him I would send him a pic of it on a square glass filter, since it probably wouldn't "bend" well.

I told him last weekend that, here in the south, things move a little slower, so it would probably be this weekend before I could take the pic.

This was his response @ 10:02 PM, 6/1 ----- Thanks, buddy. No rush on this end.

This pin WILL be on that filter, and IF anyone in his family would like it, LET ME KNOW.

I'm kinda babbling, and I'm at a loss for words, so I'll stop.

R.I.P. Friar !

stevieB

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 04:41 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I was advised this morning of what has occurred by my good friend Keith. I am in a state of shock and it is through tears I write this. John will be sorely missed in the motorcycle world in all corners of the world. I no I am no longer a participater in this Forum but John did his best to try and make me stay and now I wish I had as I would have not missed so much of his life. He was a man with a great sense of humour and he ran this Forum like the true proffessional he is. He was fair but firm. I respect him even though I did not always see eye to eye.

I will be riding "pegs down" for Friar John as a sign of respect. I dont know if you guys do that in the States but I ask our fellow Aussie riders to do the same.

Condolences to John's family and friends and all of BA.com

RIP John Bedard

chopperpaul

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 04:45 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Absolutely heartbreaking, Godspeed John!

rottnrotti

(Member)

06/06/12 04:51 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

R.I.P. Friar John

Fishercat

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 04:56 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Wow, just heard the bad news. It's a tremendous loss and he will be missed. Makes my heart sink to hear we've lost another brother. Ride safe all.

Smokey3214

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 04:59 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Just stunned. While I never met John face to face I certainly felt like I knew him.

Damn.

beanache

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 05:06 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

God bless you Friar. Ride in peace.

roadworthy

(Old Hand)

06/06/12 05:09 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I read about this first on facebook from fasteddy's post then came right here. I am crushed and in tears. I feel like John was one of my good friends I haven't met yet, and now won't.

This is a very sad day for us all...

RIP FJ

ArGee

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 05:09 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Like many here, I never met John in person but came to know of him through BA.com and his posts & interactions with this community. Strange to feel such a sense of loss for someone i never met but I think that is a tribute to the impact he made on all of us through this communtiy.

We are all truly lessened with his passing.

Rich

PES

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 05:12 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Sometimes It's the small things you remember.
I was sitting with Chy at his place @ this years Ga Rally.
I had no idea John was coming, in pulls Moe and behind him pulls FJ on Moe's other bike. My brain was just not computing how the heck FJ from Montana was riding Moe's bike from Florida, Cinnamon Girl in Georgia. John gets off the bike and I walked up to greet him and he says " you had the dumbest look on your face" It was the worst kept secret, you must be the only one who did not know.
haha,That was John, always said what was on his mind.

Miss you big man and I'm glad I got to ride with you in Arizona last year, godspeed !

Yes he did say what was on his mind. Last year at the SWTF we were getting ready for the Saturday ride and people were standing around the Harley he got for the ride since his America was out of commission. I said "did you rent that Softail?" without blinking an eye he said "No I stole it". I thought,yep that's the FJ I know and love from the site.

Thanks to all, for the great pictures of John, friends and the sport he loved. Keep them coming. It helps ease the pain

Calkins

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 05:18 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

See you later sir...

Jayhawk

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 05:25 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I saw the title of the thread and wondered what the joke was...if only it was.

Everything I start to write just seems so trite. I wish I had met him, even though we never met I'll miss him.

sbs287

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 05:31 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Speechless. Godspeed my friend.

findlay13

(3/4 Throttle)

06/06/12 05:41 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I have no words.I'm shocked and numb.

R.I.P. Friar John.

https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/465712_10151025393358973_1159168426_o.jpg

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 05:53 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Here are some of mine and Bob's (Habuba)

John stopped by our house in Sept. 2007, on his way to LA to visit family

https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hph...203484362_o.jpg

He sure knew how to pack a bike......

https://sphotos.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-snc7/474812_10151025378593973_1441253360_o.jpg

At the SWTF in 2008. With Wendy and Adey

https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/474751_10151025406408973_730165855_o.jpg

At the SWTF in 2011. I will miss him very much......

blackdog

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 05:56 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Wow....just stunned....

Bill

(Oil Expert)

06/06/12 06:09 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

August 2008 in Helena, outside the pub where john bought me dinner.

HeneryHawk

(3/4 Throttle)

06/06/12 06:09 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

RIP Friar John. God Bless. GodSpeed.

(Fe Butt)

06/06/12 06:28 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

John just used that pic Amy posted with his bike packed in the thread about touring on a BA. Yes I keep popping back in to see what others have said. Although I never met the man in person I am saddened I never will.

roadworthy

(Old Hand)

06/06/12 06:34 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Although I never met the man in person I am saddened I never will.

+1 on that. Just because I never got to shake his hand doesn't make the hurt any less felt

Bill

(Oil Expert)

06/06/12 06:39 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Made it to Riverside around 2-2:30 local time. Leaving way earlier than usual worked out pretty good.

Another run at Mingus and White Spar this morning with virtually no traffic was heaven (and left quite a bit more footboard metal behind as well). Had no idea there were more twisties between Yarnell and Congress. That hairpin descent down the mountain to Congress was sweet. Said goodbye to Ryan (rgoldberg) in Quartzsite around 11am after which Devon and I got thoroughly cooked going across the rest of the desert on I-10. But it was a lovely 82 degrees in Riverside with a nice breeze when we arrived. More of that, please!

Devon went on to LA and tomorrow I'm headed to San Diego for a visit with more friends. He and I will meet up on 395 Thursday morning for the 1300+ mile ride home.

I imagine this is john's last post on the board. *clearly* he was having an excellent trip.

(Fe Butt)

06/06/12 06:40 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I was just looking around at some of the things he did and does. Take that little 10n yr anniversary in the banner at the top of the page that he also made. I was just looking at another thread where he had fixed the pictures someone had tried to post and got the address wrong. It got me thinking and in addition to that special place for him that bulldog avatar he loved so much should be incorporated as well. The home page banner has a black area to the far left I think might be a good spot for it if that can be done.

(Fe Butt)

06/06/12 06:44 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Quote:

Made it to Riverside around 2-2:30 local time. Leaving way earlier than usual worked out pretty good.

Another run at Mingus and White Spar this morning with virtually no traffic was heaven (and left quite a bit more footboard metal behind as well). Had no idea there were more twisties between Yarnell and Congress. That hairpin descent down the mountain to Congress was sweet. Said goodbye to Ryan (rgoldberg) in Quartzsite around 11am after which Devon and I got thoroughly cooked going across the rest of the desert on I-10. But it was a lovely 82 degrees in Riverside with a nice breeze when we arrived. More of that, please!

Devon went on to LA and tomorrow I'm headed to San Diego for a visit with more friends. He and I will meet up on 395 Thursday morning for the 1300+ mile ride home.

I imagine this is john's last post on the board. *clearly* he was having an excellent trip.

There is some comfort in the fact that this post shows he was having a great time, if you are going to go might as well be fast doing something you love.

RonL

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 06:57 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Damn. Sad day indeed. RIP John. Prayers for the family.

bigbill

(Worn Saddle)

06/06/12 07:06 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Oh no.
I'm in shock.
I just spent this last weekend at the Southwest Triumph Fest riding and visiting with John.
As has been said; he was the life blood of this site but much more than that, a friend. A pleasure to be around and to ride with.

He will be sorely missed.

marty

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 07:15 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

It is a sad day around the world,you are greatly missed John.Rest in peace my friend.

MsChevious1

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 07:16 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I could have sworn we took pictures last time we saw him, but I can't find them anywhere. Thank you to everyone who share their pictures here.
You never know when you will see those you care about again. Make it a point to make good memories, and preserve then when you can.
Sad here.

DunnSpeed

(Oil Expert)

06/06/12 07:18 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I never met John but I am moved to the point as if I did know him. It's amazing how much we get to know each other on this board and the relationships that happen.

John...you will be missed. I appreciate the time you devoted to us and I appreciate you as a person. God speed, bro.

arstaren

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 07:32 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

This is terrible news indeed! I will miss ribbing back and forth with him. This not only a great loss for his friends but a great loss for the whole BA.com community as well.I was just PMing back and forth with him not long ago, I am in total shock and almost disbelief.I didn't always see eye to eye with John but that is why I liked him. He kept this place going with fairness and just enough restraint to make this a great place to hang out. John put his time, knowlege and effort into this site for us all and I am sure we all appreciate that. He will be missed by those who knew him weather it be just on here like me or in person like many others.

Ian said it as good as I could have. I'll miss him and his sharp cuts. Huge loss. damn!

PES

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 07:38 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

[quote I will be riding "pegs down" for Friar John as a sign of respect. I dont know if you guys do that in the States but I ask our fellow Aussie riders to do the same.
RIP John Bedard

I have never really heard of this Stevie, but the more I think if it the more it sounds like a good idea. It would be like you said, a way for everyone on this site from all countries to show respect and solidarity for our brother, John. I know I only met him once but I felt like I've known him for the almost 10 years I've been on this site. Everyone has their own way of mourning and celebrating the life of someone that has fallen. Tonight for me it was washing my bike with the pegs down and thinking of John. For the rest of the week it will be "pegs down" for FriarJohn. He would have probably called me a chuckle head.

bigbill

(Worn Saddle)

06/06/12 07:48 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Last Saturday, 02 June, 2012 in Sedona:

roadworthy

(Old Hand)

06/06/12 07:51 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

I will be riding "pegs down" for Friar John as a sign of respect. I dont know if you guys do that in the States but I ask our fellow Aussie riders to do the same.
RIP John Bedard

Quote:

I have never really heard of this Stevie, but the more I think if it the more it sounds like a good idea. It would be like you said, a way for everyone on this site from all countries to show respect and solidarity for our brother, John. I know I only met him once but I felt like I've known him for the almost 10 years I've been on this site. Everyone has their own way of mourning and celebrating the life of someone that has fallen. Tonight for me it was washing my bike with the pegs down and thinking of John. For the rest of the week it will be "pegs down" for FriarJohn. He would have probably called me a chuckle head.

I'm in... Chuckle head, he definitely would have called us that

freedom

(Saddle Sore)

06/06/12 07:54 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

This has been a shocker of a day for many, many people. John & I took our first road trip to BC in maybe 2004? Passing through Canadian Customs at Eureka the guard motioned to the bike behind and asked me how long I knew that guy. I wanted to say "Him? We just met a crack house in Kalispell last night". Took a lot of road adventures together, rainy BC, sunny BC, the legendary push his bike north across the border to a grinning Gordie trip, Washington North Cascades (maybe the best of the lot), numerous rides to the Nelson Rally (to harass & torment our good friends).

Our last real ride 3 years ago, where my only memory of the so-called "mishap" was what John told me. Truthfully I think the whole thing was harder on him. John said I kept sitting up in the Nelson hospital ER telling the medical staff to call my mom, "but tell her I'm alright" and that if I did it one more time he was going to smack me. My other guardian angel Dr. Rene Louis was there. After that episode was in the books and all the untold things he did for me, I said "I suppose I better start being nice to you".

Nelson's going to be a different deal this year, but there's so many friends that gather there I wouldn't miss it for the world. Take good care people, ba.com is a very special place.

jh

Mojopie

(Complete Newb)

06/06/12 07:59 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I don't know what to say. I am stunned!

I am a lurker. I lurk. This tragedy has brought me out of the background to try to express how much I will miss someone I never met. His wit was quick....and sharp....and blunt like a smiting hammer.

To all his friends, you are in my prayers and I ask God to send you comfort.

PES

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 08:16 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

After that episode was in the books and all the untold things he did for me, I said "I suppose I better start being nice to you".

jh

That's so true John. I was thinking of that this afternoon. In spite of all his bluster, sarcasm and put downs,(which I'm guessing was sometimes an act to uphold his site reputation as a smiter) I'm pretty sure he had a big heart and would do anything to help a friend, as you know from first hand experience.

Johnquinnell

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 08:19 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Gods Speed Friar John.
You did well in your time with us.

mike57

(Learned Hand)

06/06/12 08:21 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I am blown away by this, John was "THE Man" on this sight and fun to keep up with on face book. I am really going to miss the banter and wit. My condolances to His family and close friends. He was too young and had too much going for Him. He will be missed.
remember to ride safe.
mike

KaiserSoze

(Oil Expert)

06/06/12 08:23 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I was shocked to hear this terrible news. I, like many of us here, only knew John from our interactions on this site. He was indeed the lifeblood of this worldwide community. Having been active here for the past 6 years, I can say that I considered John a friend, even though I never shook his hand. The number of people he has affected here, and in his personal life, is a testament to the spirit of the man. I don't know what the future holds for this site, I can only hope that it continues as the place that we all love to visit, the place that FriarJohn helped make so great. My deepest sympathies go out to John's family and close friends, here, and around the world. RIP FJ.

arstaren

(Loquacious)

06/06/12 08:30 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

We've never had a flower fund here but this would be a good time to starte one. Flowers from the BA.com family would be nice.

Good idea. Someone from close to there could maybe start a seperate thread. I'm in.

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 08:38 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Ok, I need to ask. What does "pegs down" mean? Never mind, I know now. Bummer, I don't have passenger pegs.

HabuBA

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 08:45 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

John, you will be missed! Reading the posts on this thread is a testament of your touch on all our lives. Thank you John.

rgoldberg

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 08:45 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

unreal...just unreal...just heard the news from Bob...
I've enjoyed Johns wisdom and wit over the past few years on the site and finally was able to meet him this past weekend in Sedona. I enjoyed riding and talking with John Saturday and Sunday... What a loss.

My thoughts will be with Devon as he journeys 1300 miles home.

R.I.P Friar

KaiserSoze

(Oil Expert)

06/06/12 08:48 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

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We've never had a flower fund here but this would be a good time to starte one. Flowers from the BA.com family would be nice.

Good idea. Someone from close to there could maybe start a seperate thread. I'm in.

I'm in for that. Maybe someone could set it up through paypal or something.

ScottS

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 09:05 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

RIP John! Some day we will ride!!!!

chuckyj

(3/4 Throttle)

06/06/12 09:39 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Saw this on face book while at work and just throw my whole night off. I never meet him but between the forum and face book I feel like did. I was planing on doing a coast to coast ride in the next few years and john's place was high on my must stop list. He will be missed.

sbs287

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 09:45 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Knowing that John would be telling us to quit whining and get on our bikes, I saddled up Bellevedere and took a little sunset jaunt along Lake Michigan here by my home with the pegs down. The flowers smelled wonderful and the sunset was spectacular. It gave me a little time to reflect on a guy that I never met, yet helped me along on my continuing journey on 2 wheels through this site. He was a good honest guy that told it like he saw it. I wish there were more out there like him. I'll miss his witty comments on my facebook page. He was always good for one.

Smooth roads ahead, Friar!! Godspeed.

(Complete Newb)

06/06/12 09:48 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Hello again all. Thanks again for all of you comments. I wanted to touch base with what I have thus far. After talking with John's mom they will be making his final arangements tomorrow in California. I am to understand that there will not be a service there but there will be one here in Montana. There probably will not be much more to say until early next week as to exactly when or where. Again if anything changes I will put up a post.

Take care and ride safe!
Geno

alabama_al

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 10:05 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

sad sad news. R.I.P.

1087

(Greenhorn)

06/06/12 10:24 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Terrible news...
Hard to believe that John is gone...
Life is too short"
RIP Friar John.

churchkey

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 10:29 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I found this on the web after doing a search. I'm still trying to wrap my head around what happened. I wasn't even personally close to John and it still affects me greatly. So, i can only imagine how many of you feel who were.

http://www.ocregister.com/news/old-357590-year-motorcycle.html

(Stickman Yogi)

06/06/12 10:55 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Been fighting tears all day while reading every post here and also going through pictures of events I attended with John. Interestingly I seem to have a lot of pictures either of John or including John. Here I share a couple but will post more later on.

Ba.com members attending the Nelson RAT Raid last year.

There's another side to John. Pictured are Karen, myself and John overlooked a wondrous view near my home. Dang, I wish John was here for a witty comeback about his "better side" or something.

FCTush

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 11:43 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Attempting to get Dwight to listen.

Three caballeros

FJ had a smile for everyone

I'm not good at this crap.I liked John a lot, funny, acerbic, and smart with a questionable taste in whiskey. A highly valued member of
the
Fart,Snort and Hack
philharmonic Loft orchestra.

Fair winds and following seas Friar, I will miss you. Say hello to Derek and LarryShep for us

05woody

(Adjunct)

06/06/12 11:57 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

UNBELIEVALE!!! He was a good man and good friend. I'm speachless.
R.I.P. John

boof

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 02:40 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I did not get to meet John but he will be missed
Ride on Mate

Garf

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 02:49 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Tragic!!! Life can be ****** at times and this is one of em!! Sincere condolences to all of you, his close friends and family.

(Bearing Changer)

06/07/12 03:39 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Well I poured two drinks last night. John's Crown Royal. Upon awakening, the reality hit again, then I noticed John's glass untouched on the table...

sconsi

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 03:55 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I've only been on the boards for a short while, but from my short time here and longer time lurking before that, I could tell that John was one of those guys who was larger than life. He will be missed. R.I.P.

(Loquacious)

06/07/12 04:31 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Black arm band day

TonyG

(Learned Hand)

06/07/12 05:56 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

John was the heart and soul of our forum.
Rest in Peace Friar.

doza9372

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 06:01 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Never met John unfortunately. But like many I felt like I knew him based on interactions on this board. RIP Friar.

Bemo61

(Complete Newb)

06/07/12 06:14 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Gods Speed John & Gob Bless...Will keep your family in my prayers! I don't really feel like riding,but when I do I'll go "Pegs Down" for FJ!

(Stickman Yogi)

06/07/12 06:37 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

After waking up today I feel much the same as yesterday... just sad. I (we) have to snap out of it and begin rejoicing in the wonderful friendship so many here enjoyed with John. I am very grateful to have known him both on and off this forum. Wherever you are John, thanks for being my friend!

(Fe Butt)

06/07/12 06:42 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I'm sure John would tell all us chuckle heads to get on with life and go ride.

biker

(Learned Hand)

06/07/12 06:43 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

wow this is sad news..I had to read it twice to believe it..

RIP JOHN you will be missed & remembered by many....

Ed

DunnSpeed

(Oil Expert)

06/07/12 06:57 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Same here Keith. Just rolled out of bed and the first thing I did was check the forum about John. I'm still sad for everybody...family, friends, and all. We'll muttle through and things will work itself out it's just...THIS SUCKS!

(Bearing Changer)

06/07/12 06:59 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Than Almitra spoke, saying, "We would ask now of Death."
And he said:
You would know the secret of death.
But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heart of life?
The owl whose night-bound eyes are blind unto the day cannot unveil the mystery of light.
If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart wide unto the body of life.
For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one.
In the depth of your hopes and desires lies your silent knowledge of the beyond;
And like seeds dreaming beneath the snow your heart dreams of spring.
Trust the dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.
Your fear of death is but the trembling of the shepherd when he stands before the king whose hand is to be laid upon him in honour.
Is the sheered not joyful beneath his trembling, that he shall wear the mark of the king?
Yet is he not more mindful of his trembling?
For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun?
And what is to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?
Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing.
And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb.
And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.

newt

(Oil Expert)

06/07/12 07:20 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

when i got home yesterday and turned this box on, the first thing i saw was this post. needless to say i was in shock. i had to shut it down and walk away. i only had just met John at the Ga. rally and enjoyed my time talking to him. we had a funny conversation about the fact that i had cost him quite a bit of money last yr as it was me who turned him on to the Rocket deal. now i am wishing i never had. i know that even if he had not gotten the Rocket he would probably still have been in Cali for the visit, but then i have to wonder. we have had a few moderaters around here and some have found it to be to much but here was a guy that took the time it must take to do that job and did it because of the love of the site. i am trully saddened by this and have to believe that him and Shep will be riding the big road together in that small group of Triumph riders that have went before. R.I.P. good Friar, you will be missed here but we all look forward to seeing you in the next world and sharing that ride with you and Larry!!! this is a very sad day at B.A.com very sad indeed. my prayers and condolences to his family, may they find peace in knowing that he was where he wanted to be doing what he wanted to do

chophead

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 08:33 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

very,very sad news.i never ever put th puter on before i go t work in th mornin,but f some reason i turned it on, n was confronted with this terrible news.sad.ride on john,ride on.

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 08:46 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

When is the next ride/event?

I was thinking (even though I can't be present, being on the other side of the planet) that something like a patch might be an idea?

Been working on something... it's still very crude and unfinished but would it be something that members would be interested to sport in showing our appreciation?

(Fe Butt)

06/07/12 08:50 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Excellent job there, Jeff!

I like it...a lot!

Ryan7771

(Oil Expert)

06/07/12 08:51 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I like it. Most of us know of this site, but I thought I would include it in our active remembrance.

Friarsride

(Loquacious)

06/07/12 09:05 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

That is neat.

(Fe Butt)

06/07/12 09:12 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

As many others have stated this morning, I also woke up with Friar John being my first thought. And so, after makin' coffee, my first move was to sine into this website and view the latest on John's RIP thread here.

I noticed my PM signal flashing and found that John Halpop, aka "freedom" another very close friend to the Friar's, had sent me a PM. This was John's PM to me titled "C**P"...and John I hope you won't mind me makin' this public here:
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Dwight, I'm glad Friar John got to spend part of his last big ride at the Southwest. He greatly anticipated being able to give you crap in person. He also thought a great deal of you as a friend

John
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I think my following reply back to John might best express my personal thoughts about the untimely death of the "The Good Friar" now that I've had a little time to come to grips with this:
---------------------------------------------

Thanks John. I know from the many conversations I had with him online and in person over the years, he felt the same way about you.

Your "He greatly anticipated being able to give you crap in person" line and Mike's picture in his RIP thread where Mike's caption of, "Trying to get Dwight to listen", had me chuckling to myself.

You probably remember early on when this website was in its "infancy", John and I would often banter back and forth quite a bit on the site, kind of like two bantam roosters. And then, about five or six years ago, I invited John to stay over at the house in California when he was riding down there to visit his parents. More than a few folks on this website thought that that would be somethin' to see when him and I would finally meet face-to-face. Well, to maybe the "surprise" of others as you know, we got along very well that weekend, though I'm not sayin' we didn't exchange a few barbs at each other durin' that time

, and became pretty darn close from then on out, though once again, I'm not sayin' we didn't continue to exchange the aforementioned barbs occasionally, of course.

Whenever I threw this here SWTF, one of my first hopes was always that John could make it down here to them, which as you know, he did three times.

And now, I can't believe I will never have the opportunity to visit him up there in your beautiful state...and bug him on his "home court".

Thanks for your PM here, ol' buddy. I think typing this reply to you is probably helping me come to terms with all this.

Cheers,
Dwight

(Bearing Changer)

06/07/12 09:12 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Excellent job there, Jeff!

I like it...a lot!

BlueNose

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 09:13 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Shocked at this terrible news. Deepest sympathy to his family and friends. A legend that will be missed by many far and wide. RIP good Friar.

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 09:26 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

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Excellent job there, Jeff!

I like it...a lot!

+1

Thanks guys!

I am new at this... It's my first try at doing a memorial patch.... should I include some dates? or ba.com in there?

mrt202

(Learned Hand)

06/07/12 09:31 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I've been off the site and out of the saddle for a while, but i felt the need to drop in and express the great sadness and shock that i feel after finding out about this on Facebook. I never met John but have interacted with him on here and i considered him a friend just the same. He will be missed.I wasn't able to attend the Georgia rally this year, and having missed the opportunity to meet this man makes me regret it even more.

I don't know what his views were concerning faith, but i truly hope to see him in the great beyond.

And this is the promise that He hath promised us, even eternal life. 1John 2:25

ladisney

(Loquacious)

06/07/12 09:33 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I never met John in person although I had several occasions to chat with him online. He seemed to have a very good sense of humor and was always ready to give advice and pointers from his stock of knowledge. BA.com will be much poorer without him.

(Loquacious)

06/07/12 10:05 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I'm not around here as much as I once was...some may not even know me, some may remember me, (some may not want to) and some I am honored to count among dear friends all because of this site...

John and I 'met' here and I was often the victim (deservedly so) of the Hammer of Smiting® ...but before I posted anything likely to cause the Hammer to swing I would often give the Mods a heads up via a PM, particularly John, since it was 50 to 1 that it would be he who swung the mighty blow...John and I developed a friendship based upon the mutual respect we had shown each other...he had a "job" to do here, maintaining the order and I had something to say that, albeit controversial or inflammatory, I felt needed to be said...John would PM me back and say I'll let it go as long as I can...but I will probably have to "Smite you" I understood and accepted this...Often John would PM me with his personal approval of my post and warn me that he would have to "delete your post and give you crap" ...

We had much more contact (with far less Smiting) on FB and again he and I may not have seen eye to eye on every subject (politics comes to mind) but there was always honesty and respect for each other, a rare quality indeed. On those things we did agree on we would rant (or converse at length) on, "like" each others posts and "steal" the ones we really liked…I will sorely miss the banter we would publicly share and the respect and honesty we shared privately…

Despite his personal opinions regarding anything he saw posted here he always (with rare exceptions) publicly acted in a manor that was for the greater good of BA.com…

I’m am still in shock at the news and I don’t think I have yet to really discover just how incredibly much I will miss John, the times we shared, or what he did for this site!

neight

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 10:14 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

So, I just found out about this this morning when I saw Soren's post on Facebook. I never met John in person but just seeing him on here and on FB gave me the impression that he would have been a great friend had I know him better.

Here's to Friar John and the impact he had one everyone he never even met.

R.I.P. John Bedard.

Swing low.

(Learned Hand)

06/07/12 10:16 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

i would be very interested in contributing some funds to a flower fund or something like that, is there someone close that has a paypal account and we can fire over some money for this, really its something that should be done.

Ryan7771

(Oil Expert)

06/07/12 10:40 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

I'm not around here as much as I once was...some may not even know me, some may remember me, (some may not want to) and some I am honored to count among dear friends all because of this site...

John and I 'met' here and I was often the victim (deservedly so) of the Hammer of Smiting® ...but before I posted anything likely to cause the Hammer to swing I would often give the Mods a heads up via a PM, particularly John, since it was 50 to 1 that it would be he who swung the mighty blow...John and I developed a friendship based upon the mutual respect we had shown each other...he had a "job" to do here, maintaining the order and I had something to say that, albeit controversial or inflammatory, I felt needed to be said...John would PM me back and say I'll let it go as long as I can...but I will probably have to "Smite you" I understood and accepted this...Often John would PM me with his personal approval of my post and warn me that he would have to "delete your post and give you crap" ...

We had much more contact (with far less Smiting) on FB and again he and I may not have seen eye to eye on every subject (politics comes to mind) but there was always honesty and respect for each other, a rare quality indeed. On those things we did agree on we would rant (or converse at length) on, "like" each others posts and "steal" the ones we really liked…I will sorely miss the banter we would publicly share and the respect and honesty we shared privately…

Despite his personal opinions regarding anything he saw posted here he always (with rare exceptions) publicly acted in a manor that was for the greater good of BA.com…

I’m am still in shock at the news and I don’t think I have yet to really discover just how incredibly much I will miss John, the times we shared, or what he did for this site!

Not that there is any silver lining here, but I am certain John would have been "snarkily" pleased to have so many family members coming home to pay their respects. I too vanished from the site for far to long worried about work. Thanks for coming home, and I hope we get to ride together soon. (and Fishercat too).

(Loquacious)

06/07/12 10:44 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

I hope we get to ride together soon.

Me too buddy...me too!

motorat

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 11:29 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

RIP good friar. i never met you but i always enjoyed you knowledge and wit. enjoy the smooth pavement and tasty curves in heaven.

sad to see you go.

(Fe Butt)

06/07/12 12:06 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I would wear one of those patches. Back when I first posted here I used to go at it with John on a regular basis but in recent years we have gotten along just fine.

(Fe Butt)

06/07/12 12:26 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

HELL Ian, when YOU(okay, and I) first started posting here, YOU(okay, and I again) would "go at it" with just about EVERYBODY 'round here, DUDE!!!

(Loquacious)

06/07/12 12:35 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

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HELL Ian, when YOU(okay, and I) first started posting here, YOU(okay, and I again) would "go at it" with just about EVERYBODY 'round here, DUDE!!!

Now THAT I was around for...

Fasteddy

(Learned Hand)

06/07/12 12:40 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I had to make a 97 mile trip to work the Chopper last night. Before I heard about John I had planned on riding my bike up there. After I heard about it I didn't want to ride. I told my wife I was taking the car. As I walked out the door, I looked at my car and thought, I'll be damned if fear and grief will keep me from this. I got on my bike and made the trip. I am not ashamed to say I cried most of the miles to work. I was up until 0230 this morning as we were busy flying last night, and Friar was in my thoughts even then.

I work again tonight, taking the bike back up, even if it rains.

Jeff that Patch is awesome, it captures Friar.

God Speed Brother, To his family and friends, we grieve with you.

To all of you, live so that you have no regrets.

eddy

Stewe

(3/4 Throttle)

06/07/12 01:37 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

What a shock,hard to believe,John was a guy I'd have liked to have met but never did,in the US last year I met Dwight and Becky and John asked why we didn't come up to him but we were riding the route66,we've bantered on the forums for the last 10 years, BA.com and FB. When I bought my Harley Deluxe earlier this year He posted "I scraped the hell out of one of those in Arazona a few years ago" God be with you John,thinking of you and your family, R.I.P.

PES

(Loquacious)

06/07/12 01:40 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

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Excellent job there, Jeff!

I like it...a lot!

+1

I like it also Jeff. I think the next Ba.com rally is the Midwest Rally on July 6th-8th.

(Stickman Yogi)

06/07/12 01:48 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

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Excellent job there, Jeff!

I like it...a lot!

+1

I'd be honoured to wear that patch. Great idea, Jeff.

Speedmaster05

(Learned Hand)

06/07/12 01:49 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I'm very sorry to hear of this shocking loss.
Sincerest condolences to John's family and friends.

Rest in peace John.

Please, ride safe everyone.

RKTBOB

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 01:57 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I wear 2 patches of Fallen Riders under my "Live ands Let Live" patch..Be honored to Put Friars' with my friends as He was also a good friend.Brought Him and His Bollox back from the Oyster Run here in Washington state to Montana a couple years back..wanted to take picture but He taught me that Triumphs' are to be ridden,not trailered..He promised to destroy my camera if I took a pic,and we all know He meant what he Said..God Bless John!!!

beamer

(Learned Hand)

06/07/12 02:15 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I feel totally like crap!,, I thought this to be a joke thread also and actually paid no mind to it till today!

I feel ashamed for not seeing it sooner. I never met him myself, I enjoyed the PMs we shared on bs topics, and really liked his witt in the forum.

My day is now grayer to realize all this. RIP John.

(Learned Hand)

06/07/12 02:15 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Quote:

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Excellent job there, Jeff!

I like it...a lot!

+1

I'd be honoured to wear that patch. Great idea, Jeff.

Ditto

PersonalTriumph

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 02:28 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

I was thinking (even though I can't be present, being on the other side of the planet) that something like a patch might be an idea?

Been working on something... it's still very crude and unfinished but would it be something that members would be interested to sport in showing our appreciation?

Possible to get that as a sticker too? I'd definitely slap one of those proudly and prominently on my bike.

dbontheb

(Complete Newb)

06/07/12 02:50 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

This is terrible news. Like others have said here, I never knew him personally, but felt like i did through this site. I lurk here a lot, and really appreciate the wonderful attitude prevalent on here. John was the center of that. You could tell just by his posts the kind of man he was. Thanks for everything, John.

brindle

(Loquacious)

06/07/12 03:05 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

When is the next ride/event?

I was thinking (even though I can't be present, being on the other side of the planet) that something like a patch might be an idea?

Been working on something... it's still very crude and unfinished but would it be something that members would be interested to sport in showing our appreciation?

Sorry to be a pain, but instead of being round would it be possible to get that done in the shape of a bulldog?

I'll be pround to wear one no matter what shape BTW

hill8586

(Oil Expert)

06/07/12 03:25 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Just dang , haven't been here in awhile and this was a shock to see....prayers are with John's family..... a neat guy if there ever was one.

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 03:54 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Quote:

When is the next ride/event?

I was thinking (even though I can't be present, being on the other side of the planet) that something like a patch might be an idea?

Been working on something... it's still very crude and unfinished but would it be something that members would be interested to sport in showing our appreciation?

Sorry to be a pain, but instead of being round would it be possible to get that done in the shape of a bulldog, or maybe around a bulldogs neck?

unclecharlie

(Loquacious)

06/07/12 03:56 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

My first thought on hearing this awful news was
Oh crap, Friar had a heart attack.
As others said, at least he went out with his boots on,
doing what he loved. I can't think of anything else to say,
except to echo what has already been said.
RIP Good Friar!
Uncle Charlie

Donny

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 04:43 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Dont know what to say here,our prayers go out to his family and friends.Very sad to hear this news its such a shock to see a fellow ride go down.

RIP John............

(Fe Butt)

06/07/12 05:25 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

HELL Ian, when YOU(okay, and I) first started posting here, YOU(okay, and I again) would "go at it" with just about EVERYBODY 'round here, DUDE!!!

OK....guilty

unclecharlie

(Loquacious)

06/07/12 05:38 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Most of my PM's to Friar were:
Why don't lay off the Dog?
and
Why don't you tell Dwight to STFU?

I love all you folks, and am sorry I
didn't get a chance to meet John
face to face. I wanted to.

Uncle Charlie

amglo

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 05:50 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Like eddy, I had no plans to ride yesterday. Not out of fear but a lack of motivation. A buddy called me around 9:30 last night and asked if I was up for a midnight cruise, I don't hear from him that often & took it a needed prod. We rode until 2 am and all I thought of during the ride was John, his wit and how the last thing he would do is park the bike. As stated before, I had not met John in person, We had a lot of PM's here and on facebook...he was a first class guy who could smell ****** a mile away, my kind of guy. My heart goes out to all of his family and those fortunate to have shaken the mans hand.
Rest in Peace Friar John.

I'm up to contribute to flowers & will proudly wear any patch designed.

Gmike

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 05:56 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

This has been so sad to hear. Mary and I have been waiting to hear if John and Devon would be here Friday or Saturday on their way home,or would have to bypass us. John and I have been PMing and it sounded like they would make it.

I feel as if I have lost a friend, a friend I have never met in person but a friend none the less.

Devon, if you are still on the road and could use a place to stay on the way home we are in Star, Id. Phone 208-286-0135, Cell 208-484-2683. You are welcome here.

Mike

ArGee

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 06:30 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

I was just looking around at some of the things he did and does. Take that little 10n yr anniversary in the banner at the top of the page that he also made. I was just looking at another thread where he had fixed the pictures someone had tried to post and got the address wrong. It got me thinking and in addition to that special place for him that bulldog avatar he loved so much should be incorporated as well. The home page banner has a black area to the far left I think might be a good spot for it if that can be done.

.
That was my thread about my new TBird where Friar fixed the link, a small gesture that says volumes about the person.

I couldn't agree more that his Avatar should be permanantly incorporated into the website design in a tasteful manner.

Rich

Mango

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 06:43 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I'm sadden to hear of John's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

EADGBE

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 06:44 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

An irreplaceable member of our community. I was looking forward to riding with him again. Most of our time together not riding he spoke proudly of the friends he had made from this site. Understanding how most of us feel, my heart goes out to those who knew him primarily off of the internet.

R.I.P.

FrankM

(Greenhorn)

06/07/12 06:44 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I can add nothing to what has been so eloquently said already except, ride on Brother, ride on!

RIP Friar, you will not be forgotten.

Stacka

(Oil Expert)

06/07/12 07:08 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Hello to all,

I have just been informed of this terrible news from Dave Bernie on FB. I have been preparing for my trip to the U.S. to meet and stay with my friend Eddy (who I met here) and to ride and share in the brotherhood the Midwest Rally has to offer.

My apologies therefore for being so late in passing on my condolances as we share the grief all of us are feeling with the passing of one of the Stalwarts of this site.

John or Friar was IMHO what this site in essence represented to me, friendship, help and assistance whenever possible, guidance in whatever capacity he could and simply all those factors that this site is now and which subsequently becomes instilled in all new members as they too come to realise what a special place we have here.

I was only a week or so ago reflecting on and expressing in words how special the BonnyvilleAmerica forum was to me. This was to members from a brand new Triumph forum to do with the new Explorer which I will be buying on return from my trip to the U.S. The point I was making was, I hoped this new forum could be at least be similar to that of BonnyvilleAmerica because after all, it's terrific values are only a mirror to the big heart and soul of members such as John who IMHO is the epitome of what we enjoy here. Of course in turn, each and every other new member learns and continues the same legacy he, with the help of others taught them and subsequently the tradition of the BonnyvilleAmerica forum continues.

To John's family, if you do read the words posted from the members on this thread, like me they are feeling the dreadful loss that comes unfortunately as part of the territory from a forum of bike riders. Unfortunately I wasn't able to share any face to face time with John but he was certainly on my list I can assure you.

To those who knew John more personally, my heart goes out to all of you as your pain through recalled memories grow as the initial shock subsides.

RIP John, your presence on here has left an indelible imprint on those like myself who live half a world away. Of course to those who spent real quality time, I am thinking of you too during this very sad time.

Stacka

CDL

(Member)

06/07/12 07:17 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

What a loss my condolences to all his family and frends

bigbill

(Worn Saddle)

06/07/12 07:18 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

When is the next ride/event?

I was thinking (even though I can't be present, being on the other side of the planet) that something like a patch might be an idea?

Been working on something... it's still very crude and unfinished but would it be something that members would be interested to sport in showing our appreciation?

Bless you for coming up with this Jeff.
I would like to see "Friar" on there in some way.

BCarnage

(Learned Hand)

06/07/12 08:39 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I'm so glad I have been able to have spent a little time with John and had the pleasure of having him as a house guest. For those who never got to meet him face to face. The beauty was, he was exactly as he seemed on the computer. A smart ass, whe deeply cared about this site and the people on it. He always called like he saw it, right or wrong. I'll miss you big guy.

foglefar

(Learned Hand)

06/07/12 08:41 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I just read this news. A bit late, I know, and I apologize for that. This is shocking, hard to believe.

John, you will be be greatly missed, and I appreciate all you have done here.

Sadly,
Richard

tmax

(Adjunct)

06/07/12 08:57 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Just found out about John.... Sad news indeed. Peace and Love to you John. Prayers for his family and all friends and members of this site during this time of grieving.

chuckyj

(3/4 Throttle)

06/07/12 09:27 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Is there any way we could get a address I would like to send a card.

Conwy

(Learned Hand)

06/07/12 09:31 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Sorry for posting late, I'm overseas in Qatar on business, and just saw the patch on FB. I couldn't believe it, just like everyone else. No, I never met John, but I heard plenty of great things about the Friar from Z. We also were friends on FB, even if we were polar opposites politically. I always enjoyed his posts, even if it left me scratching my head thinging "WTF??". My deepest condolences go out to his family and loved ones.
Unfortunately, I can't raise a glass of anything appropriate right now, but will do so when I get back to Thailand next month.
RIP Good Friar and thanks for all you did for this board and the BA.com community.

Blackwind

(Oil Expert)

06/08/12 12:06 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I returned home from the BMOA meeting last night (Wednesday night), and just before lights out, I saw the post. I've just sat here tonight, after midnight, and read every post in this thread, catching up, looking for details, remembering things from long ago as many of you are.

I remember finding the site down, one day, maybe it was for the transition from the old forum to the new, maybe it was some other reason, but seems it was off the Ethernet for a few days, and I had no idea why, what had happened, if it would ever be back....I was pretty new around here then, it it seemed as though I had just been sucker punched. Like I had lost a good dog. Or a good friend.

I never met John, and maybe would have at the Ga. rally this year had circumstances been different. But learning of his passing (and I thought it a prank, too, at first), I remembered the day when there was no BonnevilleAmerica.com.

Think about that. One day it's all here, the next, maybe here no more.

I hunger for detail. Sounds as though it may have been health-related, maybe not rider error. I want to attend a service or memorial if that proves to be possible. I will have and proudly wear a patch, if one becomes available, and it looks like we have a great start on one. I want BA.com to be around forever. I want John back. I mourn his lost, and pray for Devon, and all who loved John.

But a few days without BonnevilleAmerica.com would be a sobering tribute to one who dedicated so much to it.

It will never be the same again, without him.

You will be missed, Brother John.

McCookies

(Complete Newb)

06/08/12 01:55 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Very sad. I don't know what to say. RIP Friar.

Buckster

(Member)

06/08/12 04:55 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Thank you John, for all your efforts here to enhance this web based gathering of like minded Triumph and motorcycle enthusiasts. Many kinships have formed here, and your work to make this place better for all is a huge part of bringing us together.

You will be missed, and I send good thoughts to you and yours in these dark days.

Here's to hoping for light for you to walk into.

Rest in Peace Brother John.

(Fe Butt)

06/08/12 05:38 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I think we would all like him back Keith, but thanks for saying so plainly. I agree and maybe the patch should say Friar John Bedard.

putput

(Complete Newb)

06/08/12 05:49 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Even as a newbie to riding and to this site my heart sank and I feel like I lost a friend, although I know I cannot count myself in that elite group. I offer my deepest sympathy and condolances to his family and friends. I will toast the life of a great person and member.

RIP Friar John.

philwarner

(Adjunct)

06/08/12 07:51 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

What a shock! My first contact with John was when I had trouble signing up on the site this past February and John was kind enough to email me and sign me up manually and then respond many times to my Newbie posts.

Some say we are born into this life to learn to be better humans and if that is so, it is clear to me that John proficiencied the course at 45 and the rest of us must carry on and try to live up to his example.

Snert

(Adjunct)

06/08/12 07:53 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I’m not real good with words but I am truly saddened by this news. I want to send my deepest sympathies and sincere condolences to all who love him.
You will be remembered by many as a true good person and friend. I want to thank ya for all your work and dedication to our site. As someone has said, You will always have a part of your soul living here, that’s fer sure. The lives ya touched here are better because ya touched them, even if they were touched with The Hammer. I too want BA.com to be around forever.
Rest In Peace, My Friend!!!!

I like the idea of a patch for The Friar, thanks Jeff, and I will wear one proudly. That is a great characterization of The Good Friar, nice work.

(Bearing Changer)

06/08/12 08:48 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Quote:

You can bet your ass I’m going to take that new Rocket III all over the place. I’m looking forward to blowing out the Travelogue section of this here revamped version of my website. I have two semi-epic rides in mind for next year, one centering around the SouthWest Triumph Festival in Prescott, AZ, the other around the Kootenay Raid in Nelson, BC....

John purposefully made no mention of his planned attendance at the 2012 GA Rally this year. I followed him on fb during the AZ portion of his epic ride this year. First time any significant time was spent by me on fb too. When we rode together at the GA rally, he would post things to fb. Like, "I was here", how things were at any particular time, stuff I didn't get to read (not having a smart phone) until after we said goodbye at the Airport May 21st. I wonder which angel gets the job of hauling gas, batteries and such as chase for John! They'll be indentured into a life of adventure!

(Loquacious)

06/08/12 08:57 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

I wonder which angel gets the job of hauling gas, batteries and such as chase for John! They'll be indentured into a life of adventure!

You got that right

NarsiscoLopez

(Complete Newb)

06/08/12 09:27 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I believe I only met John briefly at last year's SWTF and am very sorry to hear about this accident. My condolences to all his many friends and family.

(Loquacious)

06/08/12 09:51 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Posted this on my FB page for John...thought I would share it here too...

A BIKER PRAYER

Biker Angel be my guide
As I climb upon my scoot to ride.
Let your halo guide the way and
Keep me safe from harm today.
Let your wings provide me wind and air
And send it coursing through my hair.
Find for me a sunny place and let
It shine upon my face.
Keep the clouds and rain at bay
And keep me dry throughout the day.
Watch over my brothers who ride with me
Keep them safe and close to thee.
Keep my wheels upon the ground
So I'll return here safe and sound.
But should disaster be my fate,
Guide me through to heaven's gate.
If I must join my fallen brethren,
Please show me the way to Biker Heaven.

Hermit

(Learned Hand)

06/08/12 10:38 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

This is a major loss for the family and friends who knew him personally, but those of us who only knew him via this forum also feel the loss.

I'm not usually fond of collecting money, but in this case, I think it worthy of consideration. Whether for his family (if needed) or for the continuing betterment of the BA.com community. From the few PM's we had, I know he was always working on ways to keep this site growing. I don't recall him ever asking for money, but he always responded with thanks.

As he said; "If you find value in what you see here, please contribute to BonnevilleAmerica.com." I'm sure that there are many of us who would like to contribute in memory of all the hours he spent to keep us going.

Steve

(Stickman Yogi)

06/08/12 10:42 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

As he said; "If you find value in what you see here, please contribute to BonnevilleAmerica.com." I'm sure that there are many of us who would like to contribute in memory of all the hours he spent to keep us going.

Steve

John was the glue that held us together. He touched lives all around the globe.

leonard

(Adjunct)

06/08/12 01:07 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Very sad news. RIP

(Should be Riding)

06/08/12 01:57 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

John was the glue that held us together. He touched lives all around the globe.

Definitely!

Robert

(Founder)

06/08/12 02:09 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Dear Lord, I don't know what to say. Moe was kind enough to drop me a line today to let me know what happened. I am so sorry. Sorry for John, his family, and the lot here. I really didn't know John very well other than what conversations we had here on the boards in the early days, and the discussions we had as he took over the site, but I can say from what I know he was a great guy, had a ton of friends, and had a heart big enough for everything involved in keeping this site going for everyone, and I know it's a lot. I've informed Moe to let me know what I can do to make sure things keep cooking here, and I'll be happy to do so.

Best Regards, Robert

Phil_K

(Adjunct)

06/08/12 02:12 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Just got back from a holiday away from the computer and have just seen the sad news . . .

R.I.P. JOHN

Buffal0

(Adjunct)

06/08/12 02:37 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

OMG....I am sincerely stunned & gripped in saddness by the loss of our good Friar. Having never met him in person, I am proud to say I knew him just the same, if only via the BA forum. To those of you who knew him personally and are in contact with his family please extend my deepest condolences to them.

Buffal0

(Adjunct)

06/08/12 03:01 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Quote:

Although I never met the man in person I am saddened I never will.

+1 on that. Just because I never got to shake his hand doesn't make the hurt any less felt

+2 I am speechless over the loss of a friend I never met!

bsa_bob

(3/4 Throttle)

06/08/12 03:53 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I just read about John [friar]. he seemed a good guy,I did not know him as a lot of you did.My condolences to his family and friends. 45 is to young to go .Its really a shame. bob s

bsa_bob

(3/4 Throttle)

06/08/12 04:04 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Damn. Its true. I'm speachless. I was the last person to talk to him

http://www.accidentin.com/article_read.php?idLink=43007162

No other cars involved just him and his bike. It sounds abit like he looked away, or the like for a second .the car in front was slowing.speculation is all jus speculation bob s

ThomWill

(Learned Hand)

06/08/12 04:23 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Pegs down...

HabuBA

(Adjunct)

06/08/12 04:44 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Dear Lord, I don't know what to say. Moe was kind enough to drop me a line today to let me know what happened. I am so sorry. Sorry for John, his family, and the lot here. I really didn't know John very well other than what conversations we had here on the boards in the early days, and the discussions we had as he took over the site, but I can say from what I know he was a great guy, had a ton of friends, and had a heart big enough for everything involved in keeping this site going for everyone, and I know it's a lot. I've informed Moe to let me know what I can do to make sure things keep cooking here, and I'll be happy to do so.

Best Regards, Robert

Thanks Robert, turning the reins over to the Good Friar way back when, will be for ever appreciated,and your help now will be greatly be appreciated as well I'm sure by all.

eprunier

(Adjunct)

06/08/12 05:37 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Oh what horrible news. RIP John.

(Stickman Yogi)

06/08/12 06:00 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

I've informed Moe to let me know what I can do to make sure things keep cooking here, and I'll be happy to do so.

Robert, it is so uplifting to hear you say that! I was not around in the early days but I know about you starting things up here and... just look at what you started. One of the most amazing internet communities ever to be known. Between you and John I don't know who to thank the most but this offer to help sure as heck means a lot. Thank you so much for caring like you do!

trash

(Learned Hand)

06/08/12 06:35 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Well damn... See you in the next life ole boy. You will be missed...

Blackwind

(Oil Expert)

06/08/12 07:45 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Quote:

I've informed Moe to let me know what I can do to make sure things keep cooking here, and I'll be happy to do so.

Robert, it is so uplifting to hear you say that! I was not around in the early days but I know about you starting things up here and... just look at what you started. One of the most amazing internet communities ever to be known. Between you and John I don't know who to thank the most but this offer to help sure as heck means a lot. Thank you so much for caring like you do!

+1

I'll say till I die, that this is a very "active" forum, like it's alive. Always has been. Worldwide. A mighty big family, we all.

Robert, whatever life throws your way, THANK YOU, for making this all happen, and for understanding how important this forum is to so many people. You really created a masterpiece with this one. Bless you, my friend.

lylesdo

(Learned Hand)

06/08/12 08:51 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Such tragic news... really hard to wrap my head around this one. My thoughts, prayers and condolences go out to all who knew John.

(Learned Hand)

06/08/12 11:49 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Quote:

I've informed Moe to let me know what I can do to make sure things keep cooking here, and I'll be happy to do so.

Robert, it is so uplifting to hear you say that! I was not around in the early days but I know about you starting things up here and... just look at what you started. One of the most amazing internet communities ever to be known. Between you and John I don't know who to thank the most but this offer to help sure as heck means a lot. Thank you so much for caring like you do!

Robert thank you for the offer to help out, frankly as a sort of recluse my circle of friends is limited, but this group just has that "something" that something that allows members from across the world to feel something for someone they have never even met!! speaks volumes, don't it? if $ are required to help out as others have mentioned, i would chip in best i can for certain.

Gregger

(Oil Expert)

06/09/12 05:06 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Robert,

Along with the tragic news about the Friar, I was concerned about the continued existence of this site.... John was the heart and soul of the place. He was like a big mother hen always watching out for us chicks (not meant to be disrespectful) and you didn't mess around with this site and it's members with John around.

Appreciate the offer to keep things going. We will support you in any way we can. Just keep us abreast of any needs since John usually kept $$$ needs to himself.

I think we should have a sticky showing all the pictures in one folder of Friar John as a memorial to him.

I noticed Fast Eddy closed shop for a few days out of respect for the Friar. Much appreciated Eddy!

Bedouin

(Oil Expert)

06/09/12 06:21 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Saturday, October 29, 2011
Quote:

You can bet your ass I’m going to take that new Rocket III all over the place ... I have two semi-epic rides in mind for next year ...

... I followed him on fb during the AZ portion of his epic ride this year.

After hanging out here for nearly 10 years, it saddens me that we have lost "one of our own".

John always had a strong admiration for what he called "epic" rides.
"Epic" was a word which featured very highly in his "ride" vocabulary (as was the "hammer" in a different context).
It is therefore even more frustrating and ironic that when he finally commenced on his own long-distance rides ... he paid the ultimate price ... thus robbing him of fulfilling his dreams of far-away expeditions.

I am sure that my fellow brethren on here who indulge in long-distance expeditions will agree that John's demise can serve as a strong reminder to us all, both newbies and veterans, of an important set of simple rules ...

Rule 1 - The most important part of an epic ride is to GET BACK and remember it.
Rule 2 - NEVER forget rule 1.

So ... John, sooner or later when I get to where you are ... I'll nudge you to continue some epic rides together.
I think we have unfinished business.

R.I.P.

Fishonabike

(Adjunct)

06/09/12 11:47 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Somehow I haven't heard anything about this until just now. I'm in shock... and very sad. I didn't know John all that well, but I did appreciate his humor, his passion, and, of course, the dedication he had to this place. I'm sorry I'll not have the chance to ride with him (at least, not in this world) and my heart goes out to those of you he was close to.

Rest in peace, John Bedard. You are missed.

steve0suprem0

(Adjunct)

06/09/12 03:39 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

oh my god. i last spoke to him on Steam not two weeks ago. this breaks my heart.

Matt

(Learned Hand)

06/09/12 03:41 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Life is fragile, isn't it? I have interacted with John many times on this site over the years. After he inherited the admin duties from Robert, this became his baby. He must have done a good job-we're still here after 10 years! I'm not here so often anymore, but I still get to see some of you from time to time. I am deeply saddened by his death as I was with Larry and Don.
You'll be missed John, RIP...

Ted

(Adjunct)

06/09/12 04:45 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I never met John in person, but I have enjoyed his postings on this site. And I appreciate all he did to keep ba.com going.

Happy trails John, I'll catch up later.

Ted

(Fe Butt)

06/09/12 05:03 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Robert,

Along with the tragic news about the Friar, I was concerned about the continued existence of this site.... John was the heart and soul of the place. He was like a big mother hen always watching out for us chicks (not meant to be disrespectful) and you didn't mess around with this site and it's members with John around.

Appreciate the offer to keep things going. We will support you in any way we can. Just keep us abreast of any needs since John usually kept $$$ needs to himself.

I think we should have a sticky showing all the pictures in one folder of Friar John as a memorial to him.

I noticed Fast Eddy closed shop for a few days out of respect for the Friar. Much appreciated Eddy!

(Fe Butt)

06/09/12 05:07 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Life is fragile, isn't it? I have interacted with John many times on this site over the years. After he inherited the admin duties from Robert, this became his baby. He must have done a good job-we're still here after 10 years! I'm not here so often anymore, but I still get to see some of you from time to time. I am deeply saddened by his death as I was with Larry and Don.
You'll be missed John, RIP...

One correction and not to take away from John but Phil was Admin between Robert and John. John inherited the job from Phil.

satxron

(Loquacious)

06/09/12 06:15 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Just had a chance to sign on.

Oh my! Don't know what to say. Just horrible.

Matt

(Learned Hand)

06/09/12 07:18 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Quote:

Quote:

Life is fragile, isn't it? I have interacted with John many times on this site over the years. After he inherited the admin duties from Robert, this became his baby. He must have done a good job-we're still here after 10 years! I'm not here so often anymore, but I still get to see some of you from time to time. I am deeply saddened by his death as I was with Larry and Don.
You'll be missed John, RIP...

One correction and not to take away from John but Phil was Admin between Robert and John. John inherited the job from Phil.

Oops, forgot about Phil. Met him at the first Nor'east rally I went to.

Mikey790

(3/4 Throttle)

06/09/12 07:20 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

this isn't real..
this cannot be real...

Thensley

(Adjunct)

06/09/12 08:26 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I have been on the road for a while so have just heard the sad news. Am just shocked and saddened that this has happened. John was a straight forward sort of guy in all the dealings I had with him. I enjoyed his wit and appreciated his effort on this site. RIP Friar John.

Arsenalfan

(Loquacious)

06/09/12 08:46 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I saw a posting on Facebook and thought it cant be true. So i came into my lounge and oh dear. It's real.

What a terrible shock. RIP John. Your spirit will live on for ever in this lounge.

LA_Geezer

(Adjunct)

06/10/12 07:19 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I returned just this morning to see this sad news. I knew very little of John, but found his postings usually warm and ingratiating. RIP.

(Adjunct)

06/10/12 08:13 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

This is what I'm doing till we can get a patch:

Fred

(Adjunct)

06/10/12 08:38 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Haven’t been on the site in a while and just saw the news about John. I never met him but we did correspond a couple of times. My condolences to his family and friends. He will be missed….

Gene

(Should be Riding)

06/10/12 08:49 AM

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This is what I'm doing till we can get a patch:

Good idea.

(Adjunct)

06/10/12 01:26 PM

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We, our motorcycle ministry group, put the black ribbon on our handlebars.

For those of you who would like to send their condolences to FriarJohn's family, I have his Mother and Fathers addresses. Permission was given by both.

His Mother:
Verna Stewart
911 Logan
Helena, MT 59601

His Father:
Charles Bedard
3700 Buchanan #98
Riverside, CA 92503

(Fe Butt)

06/10/12 03:58 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

I'll be posting a card to each in the next day or 2.

mert

(queenofrunonwords)

06/10/12 04:10 PM

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strange distorted blades of grass
strange distorted trees
strange distorted tulips on their knees

Langston Hughes

FeHorse

(Adjunct)

06/10/12 05:06 PM

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Just saw the news. Never met him, but felt I knew a bit of him through this website and his interactions with forum members. Just got back from Rolling Thunder and the Vietnam Wall to find this, what a shock. I felt the void open as soon as I read the lines. Life is quick sometimes, something for us all to remember. He will be missed.

arstaren

(Loquacious)

06/10/12 05:08 PM

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I'll be posting a card to each in the next day or 2.

EDG1911

(Adjunct)

06/10/12 05:29 PM

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Just learned of this. Very sad.

I enjoyed his posts and way of handling things here.

RIP

(Complete Newb)

06/10/12 08:59 PM

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I saw the post for Verna's address and that is a physical address but her mail goes to;

Verna Stewart
P.O.Box 119
Helena, MT. 59624

Thanks,
Gene

(Adjunct)

06/10/12 09:19 PM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

Thanks Gene, Patricia gave me the other address.

QuantumSchema

(Adjunct)

06/11/12 06:01 AM

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Wow.... I don't know what to say. I'm totally in shock, sad, angry, and if I wasn't at work I'd probably be in tears and a down a couple of bottles of beer.

FriarJohn was someone I always looked up to since I joined this forum. I knew I could always count on him for straight answers. He was one of the many reasons I love this forum.

I'll never forget the day he made my bike a featured bike when I was still new to the forum. It may be small in the grand scheme of things in life but it was big to me and I felt extremely honored.

I can't count how many times my dad (capt_lou) and myself would be chatting away about things to do with our bikes and FriarJohn would come up constantly. He never knew it, but he was a good friend to my dad and me.

You will truely be missed John!!!!

QuantumSchema

(Adjunct)

06/11/12 06:25 AM

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I'll be doing a black ribbon on my bars or mirrors as soon as I can find something.

--edited: wrong place--

(Bearing Changer)

06/11/12 12:45 PM

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The Good Friar, once wrote me,

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I can't decide what's greater, your insanity or my jealousy.

Today I rode Prudence for the first time since John and rode back together from the GA Rally. The Rally was just one of many rides that allayed what he jovially referred to as his jealously. John had come to know well the open road since he wrote that to me September 1, 2010 and in that I rejoice. He also knew our insanity remained intact as he wrestled CG to the shoulder of a lonely GA highway one sunny Sunday in May. We'll always have GA, and I, thanks to John, an insane appetite for adventure.

BCarnage

(Learned Hand)

06/11/12 02:01 PM

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KingOfFleece

(Adjunct)

06/11/12 02:09 PM

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Oh my gosh. This is so bad. I spoke with him three weks ago-seems so unimportant now. R.I.P. John.

JaydeRaven

(Complete Newb)

06/11/12 03:39 PM

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For those that had ever met Friar ... you know what he'd saying right now. He'd be telling us to stop being pansies (he would have used different worlds of course) and get out and ride. Heck, he'd be geared, saddled, the bike would be started and heading out while we were left talking.

Never got the chance to meet him in person, but it doesn't change knowing that you are right. I got out on my America today and felt his presence - I feel like I have two fellow rider souls watching out for me now... my friend, Patty, who was hit on her bike by a truck last May, and now John.

Hurts to lose anyone like this, but they will always be on my mind, in my heart, and keeping an eye out over us every time we ride.

RIP John.

(Should be Riding)

06/11/12 07:39 PM

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Those are some great pics Brent. Thanks for posting them!

FCTush

(Adjunct)

06/11/12 08:44 PM

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Yesterday I rode up Hwy 92 over Black Mesa on the north side of the Gunnison Gorge. This was Derek Moshers favorite Colorado ride and I made a memorial ride there when he died. I always think about him when taking that road. FJ never got here, but I thought I'd do it for him. I now have two riding buddies on Black Mesa, but I don't want any more.

Feral

(Adjunct)

06/11/12 08:46 PM

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We have a memorial ride coming round here in a few days. Unfortuneately I have yet another rider to add to the list of friends to remember.

findlay13

(3/4 Throttle)

06/11/12 11:13 PM

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Since FJ's gone I haven't been able to participate on the forum like I used to.I just feel disengaged.Sort of numb.
I'll get back to posting and replying to posts I'm sure, but not just at the moment.
I've never felt like this before about someone I hadn't met.
I never had the pleasure of meeting John in person.But he surely was the soul of BA.com.
I'm sure the forum will continue and grow in the good hands of the three amigos who have stepped up .
All the best.

Captain_Midnight

(Adjunct)

06/12/12 12:59 AM

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Just got back last night from the Hell's Canyon Rally in Baker City, OR and saw the news. Terrible. RIP John.

tcv

(Learned Hand)

06/12/12 01:18 PM

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It has been about a week since the passing of Fiar John. Even though I only knew John for a short time (personally) and maybe about 8 years virtually thanks to BA.com it is still hard to believe.

Being out in the middle of the Pacific Ocean I have had more time than I like to think about it.

A little more than a month ago another riding friend of mine, Mike "The Motorhead", was in an accident. He was on his Truxton waiting for the light to turn green when the car behind him took off and ran him over. Luckily for him (now I can say this) he only suffered two broken bones in his right leg that required plates and multiple screws.

Bottom line life happens, and most of the time it is all good, but once in while it just sucks. How we cope with the bad, helps keep us grounded and maybe enables us to really enjoy and appreciate all that is good.

SMJoe

(Adjunct)

06/12/12 01:58 PM

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R.I.P. John and thanks for everything you gave this site and all of us.

ROB900

(Adjunct)

06/12/12 03:03 PM

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Sad to here. ya never know when its your day.

kent1969

(Adjunct)

06/12/12 10:13 PM

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R.I.P. John, We will miss you!

benjammin

(Adjunct)

06/14/12 05:17 PM

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I am shocked. You will be missed, Friar John.

oldgimmer

(Adjunct)

06/16/12 02:24 AM

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Only just heard the news which is really bad.
My thoughts to all the big guys family and all you lads over the pond who knew him personally.
The most fitting rememberance of him must be to keep the site going in full swing.
All the best big guy
Chris

Hairdoo

(Adjunct)

06/16/12 03:14 PM

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Oh my lord. I am shocked. I feel so privileged that I had the opportunity to meet and ride with John in GA this year. We heard him on his way out of town Sunday morning while we were having breakfast. It seems fitting that I just heard him head off into the distance with no fanfare or goodbyes. Just another ride.

Rest in peace, Friar.

My deepest condolences to all who loved him. .

ReneLouis

(Complete Newb)

06/16/12 03:15 PM

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Just find out yesterday...and still don't believe it. I will certainly miss you at the Triump Raid in Nelson, a month from now. We will celebrate your " Joie de vivre "
Your French Canadian Friend

islandbum

(Adjunct)

06/17/12 02:13 AM

Re: John Bedard R.I.P.

just found this out myself
RIP FriarJohn you'll be missed around here

(Stickman Yogi)

06/17/12 09:25 AM

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Since FJ's gone I haven't been able to participate on the forum like I used to.I just feel disengaged.Sort of numb.

I hear ya, man.

mike57

(Learned Hand)

06/17/12 05:44 PM

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I find my facebook page boring now. Missed already.

mike

ARD

(Adjunct)

06/17/12 05:51 PM

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I don't have much to say? Sold him some parts a few yaers ago, Talked on the phone, super person.
Would like to have met im in person.
Rest in Peace

Gregu710

(Loquacious)

06/18/12 03:33 PM

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Wow is all that I can say. I've been remiss to be here a lot over the last few years, and this just plain #$!Q#! Damn it all. Giving my condolences doesn't even begin to state what I feel! Damn it!

Mikey790

(3/4 Throttle)

06/18/12 05:24 PM

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I thought that as time passed, this would sting less..
It doesn't.

I so want to goof on his stupid bathroom project, right now

(Saddle Sore)

06/18/12 07:29 PM

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Yeah...I've come to this thread multiple times a day since. The tears come on less often as I'm choosing to remember better times but there's still an emptiness about it.
Karen and I are heading to his celebration this coming weekend. We know it's going to be tough but in a way it will provide some closure.

(Should be Riding)

06/18/12 07:55 PM

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Yeah...I've come to this thread multiple times a day since. The tears come on less often as I'm choosing to remember better times but there's still an emptiness about it.
Karen and I are heading to his celebration this coming weekend. We know it's going to be tough but in a way it will provide some closure.

Exactly why I wish I could make it out there.

Silky

(Adjunct)

06/19/12 07:48 AM

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Condolences to all on this sad loss .
I'd never met John but in a way I felt like I had from the other side of the planet comparing preferences to mechanical stuff or music , open to discusion on a wide range of stuff .
R.I.P.

BCarnage

(Learned Hand)

06/19/12 12:47 PM

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Yeah...I've come to this thread multiple times a day since. The tears come on less often as I'm choosing to remember better times but there's still an emptiness about it.
Karen and I are heading to his celebration this coming weekend. We know it's going to be tough but in a way it will provide some closure.

Exactly why I wish I could make it out there.

me too.